Sober

No more 9am haircut appointments. Stumbling into the salon, I trust my hairdresser to do what’s best to my hair, but he said something about ‘short’. I’ve been letting it grow out for months, but today we’re back to short! 😂

Sobriety has been on my heart and mind all year. When Covid hit, all the in-person meetings disappeared. Some have popped back up, but Zoom saved the AA program, in my opinion. My work makes it difficult to go to an in-person meeting, but I missed being in a room where everyone is there for the sole purpose of sobriety. That’s when I found AA International Online. There are meetings available every single day, all day long, for anyone wanting to learn how to stay sober.

I’ve sat in on meetings this month and have enjoyed them all, but some more than others. AA helped open the door for God to come back into my life and I wouldn’t be alive today if it weren’t for this program and the people in it, so now it’s time to give back which I haven’t done in years.

To be of service. The more we help others get through 24 hours without a drink, we get the same in return. Venturing into sobriety is no fun alone and nowadays no one has to with online meetings. There’s a difference between ‘not drinking’ and having sobriety. Most can stop drinking for a certain amount of time, but sobriety is how to live a good life without alcohol. You see, I didn’t have a drinking problem, I loved to drink, but drinking had me and I desperately wanted to live life sober.

This November marks 25 years sober and I cannot think of a more incredible gift than holding a 25-year medallion in the palm of my hand. When I first entered the online rooms, I was a new face and everyone asked me to introduce myself. They assumed I was a newcomer, so when I gave my sobriety date their mouths fell open and some looked perplexed, like, “Why are you here?”

Because the rooms and the people in them are the oxygen for this alcoholic to stay sober.

AA International Online


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9 responses to “Sober”

  1. Keep breathing the oxygen… Hope you’re doing well. Peace. 🦋

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    1. And that’s the key my friend. If we ever think we’re cured, it’s time for a meeting. 😄 I’m doing well thank you and hope you are too. You are missed, but at the same time I’m happy you don’t have to endure this TX broiler room. Take care of you and thanks for being here. 🙏

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  2. Good stuff!Funny how that works, God meets us in the most unexpected ways, and uses our brokenness and needs so many times to create something new.

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    1. Thanks DM. God is faithful and a master at putting the broken pieces back together better than ever before. 🙌

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  3. So proud of you and your accomplishments! A very dear friend of mine just got her 30 year coin! She had an online zoom so celebration of sobriety. We had fun games like guess her favorite color and all kinds of fun games were done online to celebrate my friend’s sobriety. Just an idea Barb! 💝💝💝

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    1. Hey Patty and thank you. This is something that was done for me and I’m ever so grateful. That’s wonderful for your friend and the games sound like a fun way to celebrate! Thanks for the idea and much love to you! 💖

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  4. Bravo! I’m sure strength of character and God’s Grace played into it, but you did it.🤍

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    1. Thank you lovely. It’s definitely by His grace and mercy. I’m just happy He never gave up on me and was there to drag me out of that pitiful pit! I’m pretty sure it’s a school we’ll never graduate from, but if we’re willing AA will show us how to live. 💖

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