Calloused

When I was a kid, the men in my family had calloused hands and Daddy had a row of callouses on the palms of each hand from continually gripping things, especially a shovel, or axe. Back then, callouses were evidence of hard work.

I was grateful for the winter to wear long sleeves, but now that the temperatures are rising my sleeves are thinner and, on some days, shorter. They’ve protected my callouses and I’ve been mindful to keep lotion on them during the winter, but this morning I can feel them coming back. That’s the thing about callouses, they don’t forget where they last resided, nor what caused them. Having calloused skin means having skin made tough and thick through continual wear, so there’s no surprise when I noticed that my elbows have become calloused.

While writing, the elbows are a part of the process. I prop them while thinking and gazing out the window, or they rest on the wooden table while typing. Some days they help hold me up just to get the job done, but I wouldn’t be able to write without them. I remember the flannel shirts with thick elbow patches worn years ago and can see them being worn by writers.

This post is the last of my drafts and I couldn’t decide whether to even publish it, but I promised myself the draft folder would be empty and now it is, all but one, but that’s a story for another time. As I pause from typing to gaze out the window, I see a bird enjoying the birdbath and am propped on my elbows. It’s an automatic position for this writer and I’m at ease with knowing all the words these elbows help spill, so my heart isn’t in any danger of becoming calloused.

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15 responses to “Calloused”

  1. I love it Barb – and I can relate. My elbows took the same beating sitting at a desk for forty to eighty hours a week. 💞

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    1. Thank you, Anne. See? Calloused still reveals evidence of work. 💖

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      1. I guess my currently soft elbows prove the lack thereof. 🙄. At least gardening season is coming and I will be able to flash my dirty and broken fingernails. 🙂

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      2. Well, it shows that season has passed, but gardening will leave evidence of another type of work. It’s a dirty job! 😂

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      3. I’d rather garden. ☺️🌺

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  2. Great post!

    And congratulations on an empty Drafts folder. I am inching towards that.

    Blessings!

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    1. Thank you, Ana, and little by little is how it gets done. 💖

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  3. Beautifully said – your elbows taking the callouses instead of your heart. It didn’t occur to me till I read this, that I do the same thing when I’m at the computer … or other places, too … elbows are more supportive (no pun) than previously thought!

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    1. Thank you Jeanne and I love puns, so they support us in many ways. 💖

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  4. It never occurred to me that my elbows could get calloused! Maybe if I worked on my drafts folder, that would happen. It certainly would take me some time and effort! Glad it is your elbows (a sign of hard work) and not your heart (a sign of other things).

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    1. It never occurred to me either Belinda, until I noticed them last summer. Calloused elbows soften the heart. You should work on your draft folder. It feels good to have it empty and I’ll share a trick that worked for me in another post. 🥳

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  5. It’s funny but I don’t ever rest my elbows when I’m writing.

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    1. I don’t while working, but writing I really lean into.

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  6. You sure write beautifully, Barb. 😊 Loved reading this!

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    1. Thank you Jackie and I’m happy you enjoyed it. 💙

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