Grow in Grace

This week I felt like a superhero in my backyard. In May, I purchased a hanging basket from a friend who works at a garden center and the vine grew like mad. When I first brought it home, it had a pretty, pink bloom, but only bloomed that one time. It didn’t take long to figure out that it loved to grow and take up space.

I didn’t like that.

So, this morning it met the trashcan. I’ve never thrown away a healthy plant, but have discarded my fair share of dead ones over the years, so it kind of felt like plant murder. There’s a sign hanging on my garden shed that says, “Gardening. Because murder is wrong”, but in this case it felt right.

A Pride of Barbados that I planted earlier this year is doing very well, but I haven’t been able to grow one successfully until this year. It was purchased from a nursery after the spring season, but was planted in a little cup of dirt, so tiny, it was challenging to leave it alone and still keep an eye on it. It outgrew the cup of dirt and I placed it in a planter that receives the morning light.

Standing in the planter, it’s almost as tall as me now, but admiring it’s size reminded me of when I transplanted it, there were two trees in the cup of dirt. Pulling back the foliage, there at the very bottom was the second tree. It was suffocated by the other tree without the chance to grow! Very carefully, I dug it up and placed it in it’s own pot.

It will grow into it’s own version.

It felt like starting over with this little guy being the same size as when I first purchased it, but I’m just grateful to have remembered. Sometimes we have to be alone to grow into who God created us to be and not be overshadowed by other people, or our surroundings. I sat it in between two Oakleaf Hydrangea trees, so it can be inspired to grow in grace.


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15 responses to “Grow in Grace”

  1. I don’t know what you charge, but I have an overachiever of an ivy that I need you to make disappear… Nudge nudge wink wink…

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    1. I got you, Anne. (Barb steps into your yard dressed as Rambo) I’ll just sit down and have dinner with you after business is taken care of. 😂

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      1. Lol.. we will even be able to see out my kitchen window. 👍

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      2. I would love that, Anne! ❤️

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  2. Some plants seem to think space is theirs that is not. I have one in the ground that has gotten in other plants space and I will be getting rid of it. We do what we gotta do when plants get out of hand. Happy gardening, Barb.

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    1. Gosh, Mags, you are so right! There’s an in ground vine that has been hanging around forever and I almost had it under control, until one day it decided to climb my neighbors fence. He loves the vine, or so he says, but it has completely covered the fence dividing our yards, so it’s an ongoing battle to keep it out of my yard, but still on the fence. He might wake up one day to a cleared fence. I just didn’t realize I paid good money for it’s cousin! 😂 Thank you and you too! 🧡

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      1. One side of the fence in my backyard is covered with a climbing vine that is tough and very difficult to remove. It looks like some kind of ivy. It hides the part of the neighbor’s yard that they do not take care of. So I am leaving it on my fence. I would rather see it than what is on the other side of the fence. We will just do the best we can and hope at some point we can be rid of those vines and fence climbers that we don’t want. :) Hugs

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      2. Ah….so the vine comes in handy! Yeah…I’d rather see a vine than an unkept yard as well, Mags. 🧡

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  3. I feel bad even giving the few plants I have a trim back for their own health, so I get it.

    Oh! There should be a shelter for homeless plants, like there is for animals! And people could come in and adopt them for nothing with the option to buy new planters, potting soil, and/or plant food. (Apparently, it’s been a long day here. 🤣🤣🤣)

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    1. Ah…it’s so good for them though. They produce healthier growth after a good pruning. Hahaha…I think that’s what the sad looking clearance cart is for. They are typically just overwatered and you can buy good plants for next to nothing. Bring them home, let them dry out and cut them way back, or repot them. As long as the roots aren’t damaged, they’ll return in abundance, my sweet. 💞

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      1. I do prune them, and I talk to them and thank them while I do it, too. :-)

        I’ve never seen a clearance cart! But then, I’m not in nurseries very often. But that is a good point. Maybe that will inspire me – I still have zip on my back porch. Just not inspired this year. There’s still time. Stay cool, Dolly!

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      2. You’re so sweet! They keep them hidden in the back like it’s the cart of shame. I’ve bought some interesting plants from it in the past. Well, Dolly, if you’re willing to wait a couple of more months, the fall plants will arrive. The porch will be more enjoyable after it cools off.

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  4. It will be cooler then. Though today is gorgeous. I may poke around this weekend – I am going on an Artist’s Date somewhere! ❤️

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  5. Michael Saenz Avatar

    Love this article! It really prompts you to think about the relationship of freedom and space to growth and inspiration.

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    1. Thank you, Mike. We can surround ourselves with people who encourage growth, but I’ve experienced deeper growth living solo.

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