On Friday’s

A few months ago, when they first became available, I purchased a cherry tomato plant. It’s done well, but I feel sorry for it because it hasn’t had a chance to mass produce. Every time a tomato turns red, I pluck it from the vine, wipe it with my shirt and eat it.

I’ve been noticing some subtle shifts in my week that happen on Friday, but not any other day. The bed is left unmade for longer periods of time and sometimes it only gets straightened before bedtime. I spend more time than any other day gazing out the front windows, overlooking the yard. This morning I curled up in a window facing chair with a cup of Mudwtr to gaze at the wooden, arched entry into the yard, taking note that the vine climbing across the top needed trimming.

This vine and I have had a journey! I wrote a semi-fictional piece entitled, “Dormant”, two years ago here. I want to say it was the first year the vine actually bloomed, but don’t hold me to that. It’s difficult enough recalling what happened last week, much less years, but over time this vine has grown massively.

This morning I woke up early feeling foggy headed, but I knew the culprit. Earlier this week I had some groceries delivered and there was a pint of ice cream placed alongside my other items by mistake. I thought about placing it in the trash and if it would’ve been a pint of vanilla it would’ve been easy, but nope…it was a brand I’d never tried before full of fudge brownie bits, chucks of caramel and honey, so I placed it in the freezer. Last night I sat down before bed and ate half the pint.

Since seeing Dr. Jason I’ve weaned myself off dairy, so this was the most I’d ingested in 6 months and my body didn’t know what to do with it. Immediately, I knew it was a mistake and could feel the ramifications within. I threw the carton away, made a cup of peppermint tea and went to bed only to awaken with brain fog.

This morning I did what I knew to do by starting the day with lots of water and then a tall glass of cold pressed green juice. Last night, after realizing the ice cream was the from the devil himself, I thought, “I’ll just push through on Friday”, but something else happened instead. I told myself, “You’ll just go easy on yourself today, Barbara and be kind to yourself.”

The bed was left unmade until almost noon. I sat in that chair gazing out the window for 30 minutes instead of just one. I put on my yard clothes, grabbed my clippers and trimmed the vine so the birds could find the birdbath hanging underneath and that’s when I noticed it. Poking out from the top of the vine was one, single, solitary bloom and that my lovelies…would only be noticed… on Friday’s.


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16 responses to “On Friday’s”

  1. This made me smile because I could almost picture you salivating over that “one-tomato-at-a-time-buffet.” (I have a very vivid and very active imagination. LOL)

    What really stayed with me, though, was your observation that the bloom would only have been noticed because you slowed down.

    We’re often tempted to think productivity is the measure of a good day, but sometimes the quieter moments sharpen our vision. It’s amazing how often God’s fingerprints become most visible when we’re no longer rushing past them.

    As for the ice cream, my granddaughter says it actually helps you to live longer and if you don’t believe that, just think about dinosaurs… they didn’t have ice cream and look at what happened tro them! LOL Thankfully, one less-than-wise decision doesn’t define the day. Sometimes extending ourselves a little grace is part of good stewardship too.

    I hope that little bloom is just the beginning.

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    1. Hi Kimberly and yes, the tomatoes aren’t producing quickly enough, but isn’t that how it often goes? We want it all now instead of savoring one, sweet, moment at a time.

      I’m glad you caught the gist of this post…the slowing down and noticing is so rich and that’s exactly where I see God’s fingerprints. He’s not loud and moves gently through our day.

      That’s funny what your granddaughter said and my body recovered the next day, but I don’t buy ice cream, so it was interesting how it snuck in to sabotage my progress. The enemy is sneaky! 💕

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  2. There is nothing like snapping a tomato off the vine wiping it with your shirt and eating it. I have done that in the past. Oh, so good.

    I can relate to you and the ice cream. I know better than to ingest dairy products but if I am near enough to ice cream I can’t resist eating it. Oh, do I pay a price for it later. I will hope for both of us Barb that we remember that dipping in to ice cream is not a good idea for either of us.

    Keep enjoying those yummy tomatoes though, okay? I am sure the birds appreciated you clipping the vine so they could more easily access the water. I hope you have a peaceful relaxing weekend.

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    1. Hey Mags and thank you for your comforting words. Temptation is such a powerful force for we humans, but there’s always a price to pay. I’m happy that you know what it’s like to snap a tomato off and eat it. Such a tiny act to produce such a magical moment. Thank you and I hope you have a peaceful week. Much love to you.

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      1. Thank you Barb. 🤗❤️

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  3. That vine must be stunning in full bloom! I hope you are over your ice cream extravaganza and are enjoying a nice weekend, Barb.

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    1. Hi Anne! It is stunning and I’m surprised I haven’t posted it. I took photos in mid-March of this year and will have to post them so you can see it in all it’s glory. Thank you and I hope this week is good to you. xx

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  4. I look forward to seeing it! And you have a good week as well, Barb. 🤗

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  5. I’m thinking that, even though you know you still have work on Friday, some other part of you knows that time to breathe deep is almost here. It’s good to let things go a little.

    The fog from the dairy – I had something similar happen a little while back when I ordered a chili omelet, assuming it was veggie chili , but it had beef. Sick all the next day because I no longer eat meat. Once our bodies start to do what’s best for them, going back to old ways can really be surprising!

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    1. Howdy Peapod and yes…Friday’s have a felling of ease to them now. If I ever need a reminder of how good I feel today, just go and eat something from a previous self. 💖

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      1. Exactly. I have no problem avoiding what I don’t want to eat, but even an innocent mistake can have repercussions and remind us. Live and learn, my love! ❤️

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  6. I always did the same with my tomato plants. I wanted to get them before the birds did! Right now, at my new place, we have just flowers. Maybe next year.

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    1. I’m happy to hear that, Becky and for some reason the birds don’t bother mine, which I’m grateful for. Congratulations on your new home and yes…next year.

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