Farmer Meets Fixer

This week, I was talking with my daughter and we were whining about the arrival of heat and humidity in Texas. I don’t complain often, but when I do it’s to my daughter because she’ll make me laugh about it, or she’ll straighten me out.

I didn’t venture outside much in May and when June rolled around I could feel a slump in my wellbeing. Being outside getting dirt caked underneath my fingernails is a large part of my DNA, so remove that and a large part of Barb goes malnourished.

My Daddy grew up on a farm with 10 brothers and sisters, so he was always outdoors. To see Daddy you’d question his race because his skin was the color of sweet tea, which is all I saw him drink. He worked in a hosiery mill down the street from where we lived and maintained the machinery, so Daddy was called a fixer.

Daddy could fix anything and taught my brothers to maintain their cars and rebuild engines, or transmissions, so it wasn’t surprising to see him take up gardening. The farmer meets the fixer is a recipe for success, so when he retired from the mill, he constructed green houses in our backyard and that was the version of Daddy I grew to love. Some of my best childhood memories are time spent in those greenhouses.

This week I’ve stepped outside every morning and spent time in the yard, but here’s a few things I do for it to be enjoyable. I go out early, preferably before the sun arrives in the yard and if it’s cloudy, even better. I wear capri pants, or lightweight jeans to keep my legs covered because mosquito’s created the slogan, “Everything is bigger in Texas”. I spray my arms and ankles with Murphy’s Natural Mosquito repellent and mosquitos stay away for hours. Even Hill Country Water Gardens sells this product.

My neighbors have never seen me wear a pair of shorts because if I’m outside my skin is covered. I have the ability to tan just like Daddy did, but we’ve come to learn that’s not good for our skin. I now realize why Daddy stayed in those greenhouses from dawn until dusk. When the farmer meets the fixer he teaches a little girl everything he learned while working with plants and she becomes a gardener for the rest of her life.

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16 responses to “Farmer Meets Fixer”

  1. Such a warm and beautifully written reflection Barb. I love how you weave your memories of your father into your own rhythm with gardening. It makes the whole piece feel both personal and grounding.

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    1. Thank you, Mervin. I believe there are strands of our parents woven into our being and people who impact who we become. My father was all about working with his hands and my mother kept me involved in church. Mama worked with her hands too, but it was always for an end result. Daddy was much more patient and would wait for the outcome.

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      1. You are so right Barb. That reminds me of Proverbs 22:6 : “Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it.”

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        1. Thank you, Mervin.

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  2. What a sweet post. Thank you for sharing what you learned from watching your daddy. Happy gardening.

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    1. Hey Mags and thank you, lovely! I don’t stay outside long, but just a couple of hours, early in the morning waters my heart. I want you to know that you inspired me with your journey of the Hydrangea. I was brave enough to purchase another one this year, but it has a story behind it, so thank you for the inspiration. 💕

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      1. You are most welcome dear Barb.

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  3. A fixer and a farmer is a remarkable combination. One repairs what is broken, and the other nurtures what is living. When I think about it, those are two qualities our Heavenly Father possesses in perfect measure. He fixes what sin has damaged and patiently cultivates what He planted within us. Philippians 1:6 comes to mind: “He which hath begun a good work in you will perform it until the day of Jesus Christ.”

    Perhaps that’s why time in a garden feels so restorative. It’s one of the few places where God’s lessons are growing right out in the open. The tomatoes, flowers, and weeds are all preaching sermons if we’re willing to listen. Even the weeds seem determined to remind us that neglect is effortless while cultivation requires intention!

    Thank you for sharing these memories of your dad. The greenhouses may have been filled with plants, but it sounds like they were also growing a little girl who would carry those lessons for a lifetime.

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    1. Hi Kimberly and thank you immensely for commenting. I love what you shared and agree that I see God in the garden. You reminded me of the time I went to a garden center and was observing the most intricately detailed flower I’d ever seen! While standing there in awe a woman walked up, stood beside me and said, “I think this flower is proof there is a God”, and I agreed with her. He tends to show off in the details.

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  4. I loved hearing about your Daddy. I can see where you inherited your gardening skills from. ❤️

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    1. Thank you, my friend and I loved reading your recent post about your grandmother. I can see her in you. 💕

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  5. I really enjoyed reading this. It’s amazing how you’ve carried that connection to the outdoors and your dad’s influence with you all these years. The way you describe it, it’s not just gardening, it’s like home for you in a deeper sense. I can see why stepping outside brings you back to yourself.

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    1. Hi Stephen and thank you for your kind words. You are right…being among the plants brings me back to my true self. Especially when there’s water and dirt involved. Now I see why Daddy was so content with dirt under his nails.

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  6. How wonderful to have these memories of who your Daddy was and how he influenced you.

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    1. Thank you, Jeanne. After he retired it was interesting watching who he became. Like a rising up of his true self. 💕

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Grab a warm cuppa and soothe your weary soul inbarbsworld. I’m Barb, the writer behind this blog and I share through a clear, simple lens. I’ve lived a life filled with everything that money could buy, but in 2014 I left that life to feel myself living. Now, I know what abundance truly is and it can’t be bought.